Throughout this past week I have been observing and listening for verbal microaggressions on television and in person. I’ve detected more microaggressional conversations taking place on television than in person.



Another sitcom that encourages or depicts microaggressions is All in the Family; Archie Bunker

Even though all of these are individuals acting out various scenarios to make the audience laugh, it sends the public the wrong message and that is that it is okay to treat people this way and that one person is superior to others. All of my examples above are from television shows or a movie, but what happens in real life situations. This week, I was speaking with my supervisor concerning the program’s policy of taking food back to the kitchen. My supervisor implied that it was okay to take the food back to the kitchen to be thrown out, but I informed her that it is unsanitary practice to take the food back to the kitchen and that it should be disposed of in the trashcan in the classrooms. My supervisor said “You people” then she looked at the expression on my face and stopped and said “when I say you people, I don’t mean you specifically, I mean the base as a whole, do things differently here.” I told her about my assignment for this week and that I was going to share her comment with the class. I told her that she had just demonstrated an act of microinvalidation in that her comment made me feel marginalized, even though she didn’t intentionally mean to insult or hurt me (Laureate Education, Inc,). I felt that she grouped me with others rather than respecting my view as an individual with valid reasoning capabilities.
This remark of “You people” reminded me of the scenario in our discussion question. It seems so easy to lose one’s identity and become viewed as a group because of society’s norms. I felt that my supervisor felt that her way was the right way regardless of the policy and that my way was wrong. I didn’t feel inferior because of the knowledge I had gained through my assignments and readings this week, but I did feel that she thought she was superior. I do realize that she spoke without thinking and as a result of her unintentional act; I was able to see a glimpse of one of her hidden biases. I hope that after sharing my assignment with her it will make her more aware of those hidden biases. Regardless if they are intentional or unintentional, microaggressions can be detrimental to the person on the receiving end. We all have hidden biases and prejudices that we need to acknowledge so that we can take steps to minimize them. We must first begin by getting to know each other as individuals and learn to accept and appreciate other’s culture by integrating them within our classrooms.
Laureate Education, Inc. (Producer). Microaggressions in Everyday Life (2011) [DVD] Perspectives on Diversity and Equity. Baltimore, MD: Author.
I have seen all of the shows you pointed out and never thought about how many microaggressions were in the shows. MOst television shows have some sort of microaggression in them. The older shows from the 1970's have the most obvious ones. The shows today are not as obvious but you can point them out. Great post!
ReplyDeleteThis is a wonderful example of what and where you can find microaggressions. Currently, there is a new television show called switch at birth. This show is about "deaf" character who can speak fluently well, but has a profoundly deaf friend who cannot speak. Then there are other hearing characters. There were a lot of disability microaggression comments in that show.
ReplyDeleteI believe that we are so ingrained with what we hear, see, and learn and we do not realize that these messages reside in our "back of mind." It would take some time to break the cycle.
I have seen all of these television shows except for the movie White Men Can’t Jump. In each of these episodes I have witnessed Fred hurling out insults to his son’s friend Julio, not even making the effort to pronounce his name correctly. Archie Bunker is known for being very racist and making it known that he feels his race is the superior race. However, all these sitcoms were major hits back in the day. Which shows that people are comfortable with these stereotypes; otherwise, the shows would have been canceled. I remember watching the shows and the first time hearing the insults I was shocked but what do you hear in the background, the audience laughing. The laughing tells the viewers you’re taking things to seriously and to loosen up. Although, the first time you let prejudice and stereotypes go by you will continue to let things go. Perfect examples, I couldn’t think of better television examples.
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